Tuesday, March 11, 2014

A time of repreve, better known as spring break

 During spring break I went on a memorial trip- In remembrance of my brother Bill.
For the trip I visited his grave, and also went and did several of the things I should have done with him while he was still here.
 Mainly, I stopped my life for a day of remembrance, done by getting away from the city, and into the wilderness. So I stent the day at the Wichita Mountains wildlife refuge in Oklahoma. Seen above is Jed Johnson lake.


 This lake reminded me of a lame joke- What did the engineers say when they found a stream here, and they wanted a lake? Dammit.
 And here is the nice little lake that came about from it- Lost lake
 The town of Medicine Park- from the top of Mt. Scott
 And lake Lawtonka, also from Mt. Scott
 and to finish off my day I went to Meers Restaurant, a place Bill was always saying we needed to go to.

and a couple other pictures I took while out hiking.

I miss you Bill.

 Also, one thing I had reiterated while I had this time to think and reflect is this. We need to be taking time to spend with family, intentionally, doing something to make memories, at least once a year would be nice.  I say this because I still feel like a stranger among my cousins, it seems like we only see each other at funerals, and it would be nice to make memories with them. We had a family rafting trip annually a few years back, but it tapered off. Any ideas?  

2 comments:

  1. The first time Tommy (Stephen) was at the Wichita Mountains Wildlife Refuge was April 23, 1990... the day after he was born. Our first stop that day was Lost lake.
    I would love a non- funeral family get together. Mr C and I have our 30th Anniversary coming up, August 3rd.....

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  2. I never really thought about it, but I too feel like a stranger with most of our cousins. I am slightly less shy with Little Tammy, but don't really know her very well either.

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